TELL IT NOW UNTIL IT BECOMES TOO LATE!!!!

How many of us really care about the people who are an important part of our life's? Have we ever given importance to those people without whom our life's must have been incomplete? I know most of us must have not given importance to those people and what they talk. I won't lie but even I have done the same mistake which some of you must have done.

With this post i am going to share my life story because i don't want anyone else to do the same mistake which i have done. Most of us doesn't like any interference in our life's. We think that we are very much civilized and know how to lead our life. Whenever my grandfather used to call me, he just used to tell me and guide me about the life as he was much experienced about it compared to me. He used to interfere a lot about the things which i used to do. I used to hear whatever he said but then i started feeling irritated. Later, whenever he used to call i used to avoid his call.

Then one day i got a call saying that he is no more. I can't even explain how i was feeling that time. Words are not enough to explain my situation that time. I still feel so guilty that at least once I should have spoken to him before his death. Today, i miss him a lot and really need his guidance but he is not with me, what i am left with is only the guilt feeling.

So please never ignore and avoid those who are really very much important in your life because until you realize, it may become too late. And you will be left only with the guilt feeling that at least once you could have spoken to them before they go very far from us.

ARE YOU REALLY A TRUE FRIEND????????

Today is friendship day and every one is wishing each other. But do we really know the true meaning of friendship or its just that its become a trend to wish on this day, so we are doing it. Its very easy to become a friend but its very difficult to keep the friendship forever. A true friend is one who accepts his/her friend however they are and tries to correct them when they are at fault.

It may be just a two small words but it has a very deep and true meaning in it. I feel friendship is not only hanging out with friends, chit chatting but its very much beyond it. A true friend must not only share happiness but also sorrows of his/her friend.

So before wishing anyone friendship's day just be sure that you will be able to keep that friend forever and will be loyal to him/her.

MIND YOUR OWN BUSINESS!!!!!!!!!!

Don't you think people today don't mind their own business. They always want to know what's going on in other person's life. They are always eager to know what's happening in other's life. I don't understand why is it so? Is it that they are jobless and have lots of time to spend in knowing about other's life rather than looking into their own. People have the tendency to do gossip about other's.

We all must have witnessed it so many times. People always try to know what's going on in your life and then convert it into a spicy gossip. It has become an easy source of entertainment for people, which is free of cost. I don't know why people don't think about those people's feeling about whom they are gossiping. Today, life has changed a lot and with this change people are the first one to adopt to change. They have become so selfish that they think about only their entertainment no matter how they get it.

I want to give one suggestion to those people that please look into your own life because you may find better and spicy gossip matter in it.

WHY IS IT SO??????????

I often feel that why people do change after getting success. Is success is something which brings negative attitude in people? I have experienced it so many times that when people are nothing they are good to others and are on earth but when they achieve something which other's do not achieve they feel that they have become superior to them. They become proud of themselves.

I have not yet understood the reason behind it. Is it that their blood color changes from red to something else after success or that they really become superior to other's. I do not know why do people forget their situation before their success. Success is not that which no one can achieve but it requires handwork with a mixture of good luck.

Why do people forget that if success can come soon then it can go also soon? It just depends how you treat it. Success with a positive attitude will bring brightness in your life and with negative attitude it will bring darkness.

Never think you have become great after achieving success because anyone can achieve it but only when the right time comes for it. If the people achieve the success very soon then they may not respect it and will not be able to feel the struggle which one does to achieve the success.

I feel that a person achieves a true success when he struggles in life because then he really knows what life is all about and the true meaning of life.

So never be proud of yourself unless people feel the same!!!!!!!

COME ON SPEAK NOW !!!

Why people don't speak the truth? What stops them from speaking the truth? The reason being they are scared of the consequences of speaking the truth. And if someone wants to speak it then that person will be pulled down. I myself has experienced it. Be it a management college or a company, true people are always pulled down. In management colleges, we will be taught to be honest and loyal but when it comes to implementation we are discouraged and demotivated. You know why people go against the unfair things because of the very fact that they are helpless due to their position. We as individuals can't change the trend but as a team we can change the world.

So, please don't let others take advantage of your silence and speak against the wrong.

COME ON PEOPLE WAKE UP NOW, IF U CAN'T SPEAK THE TRUTH NOW THEN YOU CAN NEVER SPEAK IT.

Whose at FAULT?

Have you ever noticed how little kids always have someone else to blame if they get caught? He hit me first. She made me do it. They did the same thing. Nobody told me not to do that.

Of course as we get older, we get much wiser. It's not that we don't blame others, we just get better at hiding it! Somehow it's not OK to be wrong or make a mistake. If we can deflect the blame to someone else, we're "off the hook". But is that really a good thing?

Do you think that we are big enough to handle the issues? we can only do two things. Either to do the mistakes and commit them, or to do the mistakes and blame someone else.

What do you do?

CAN WE TRUST?

Trust is a very small word but has a very deep meaning in it. Trust is a belief in the honesty of other person with a expectation that the person will not betray. Trust is nothing but a confidence which people tend to build on others with belief that they will respect then and not take advantage of them after letting them know about your feelings, emotions, thoughts etc.

Building a trust on others takes a lot of time but breaking up someone's trust does not even take a minute. Why do it happens that when we start trusting someone at one point of time, that person breaks it up at another point of time? When we share our feelings with others, trusting them that they won't reveal it to anyone, then why do they make it a source of their gossip with others?

I myself have experienced this a lot of time. When I was assured by the person that my inner feelings will not be known to others, then what makes them to tell others after making several promises of not revealing it to others. For me, my feelings are very much important but for others it is just a topic of gossip. So please do not ever break anyone's trust because it really hurts other's emotions and after that no one will dare to trust you again.

Respect others feelings and emotions without letting them down and making them feel guilty that why did they shared their feelings with you and trusted you.

WHERE ARE ETHICS GONE?

Why people today are adapting wrong ways to get their work done? Why people have become unethical in whatever they do? Before satisfying others people wants to satisfy themselves. We see that in our day today life. If someone wants to get their work done they have to give lots of bribe and thats what is unethical in their part.

People who demand bribe are not the culprit but people who give it are the ones who are being unethical in their part. Where are the ethics gone? Why we have to follow wrong path to get our work done? Why cant we get our work done without being unethical? Why today people are forgetting ethics and moving ahead without even thinking about it?

I feel that corruption is the one which is being placed first in competition with ethics. I rarely see people who really follow ethical ways of doing things. Today people only wants money and money and money thats all. Money has made people blind. But people are forgetting one thing that money can buy them anything in this world which they want but not peace, love and happiness.

So please do right things in life and follow the right path so that u don't feel guilty at any point of life.

Can You Do It ?

Why do people loose hope very easily? I don't know why do people say for certain things that it is impossible to do. I don't feel that anything in this world is impossible, until and unless we lack self- confidence and determination to do that. Many people dream about so many things but only few people are able to convert them into reality.

Why do people say without even trying anything that, " I HOPE I CAN DO IT, I HOPE I CAN BE LIKE THEM". I feel if a person really wants something, then that person will be determined and will try to achieve the goal to the fullest.

A person never fails if he works with full determination and confidence, that too in the right direction.

WHY SO?????

Why???????? This word itself shows that there is too much to give reasons for. This is a word which gives explainations for everything. Many a times when im free i sit back and think about the wrong things happening in this world. I don't know why people tend to follow wrong path.

When i am alone i often think of the days when my parents have sacrificed so many things for my happiness. I am sure that all the parents in this world must have sacrificed one thing or the other for the happiness of their children. They do so many things just to keep up our happiness. They stand by us in all the facets of life and protect us from all the evils.

And when it comes to our chance of doing something for them why most of us step back from it. I have often noticed that most of the children does't want to take the responsibility of their parents during their old age. Why that happens????? What stops us from doing so???? Is it because we have become more knowlegable than them or is it because we have entered into a much superior generation than theirs. Why they are left alone at that stage of life when they need their children the most?

So what do you think about it???

Can you say SORRY?

I always sit back and think that why can't people say sorry for the mistakes they do. I don't know why people hesitate to admit their mistakes and say sorry. What stops them from doing so? Is that they are egoistic, or have attitude, or feel below their dignity to say so, or they have over confidence on themself and think whatever they do is always right?

I always try to find out answers for these but I fail to get it. I do not think that admitting the mistake and saying sorry is a difficult task to do. I have been told by my parents many a times that by saying sorry to anyone you will not loose anything but rather you will gain the trust of others.

So, I feel that we should always realize our mistake as well as admit the same publically. This will not only help you improving yourself but will also help others to understand you.

Treating problem

" Don't place your mistakes on your head, their weight may crush you. Instead, place them under your feet and use them as a platform to view your horizons."

I am really very much impressed by this quote. I really don't know whether the author himself implements it or not, but seriously very well said. We really need to take our problems as the opportunity of gaining extra knowledge, instead of taking it as a hardcore tension.

Better take care of your problems, otherwise they may...