Friday, October 9, 2009

CAN WE TRUST?



Trust is a very small word but has a very deep meaning in it. Trust is a belief in the honesty of other person with a expectation that the person will not betray. Trust is nothing but a confidence which people tend to build on others with belief that they will respect then and not take advantage of them after letting them know about your feelings, emotions, thoughts etc.

Building a trust on others takes a lot of time but breaking up someone's trust does not even take a minute. Why do it happens that when we start trusting someone at one point of time, that person breaks it up at another point of time? When we share our feelings with others, trusting them that they won't reveal it to anyone, then why do they make it a source of their gossip with others?

I myself have experienced this a lot of time. When I was assured by the person that my inner feelings will not be known to others, then what makes them to tell others after making several promises of not revealing it to others. For me, my feelings are very much important but for others it is just a topic of gossip. So please do not ever break anyone's trust because it really hurts other's emotions and after that no one will dare to trust you again.

Respect others feelings and emotions without letting them down and making them feel guilty that why did they shared their feelings with you and trusted you.

8 comments:

  1. totally agree with what you said:)
    nice blogs!

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  2. Hi, Don't view 'others' as different from yourself. All of us have same urges (like exhibiting own knowledge, running down an absent friend to befriend with more attractive persons or mere small talk, anger etc) for breaking other's trust. So beware of such urges in yourself

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  3. hi... trust is a very delicate word... we must not take this for granted because once its gone.. it can never be retrieved again.

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  4. Good post but in our place in the Philippines it is hard to Trust. I wish more Filipino can visit your blog girl.

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  5. Hey..You wrote very nice here....Trust is something we can not define in words and sometimes if some one breaks our trust, we still trust him/her again....Don't know why? But its human nature!!!

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  6. u see its very simple some thing which takes time in buliding it will be destroyed in no time. u take any thing so wats the problem wid trust how can trust escape the universal principal

    we kno every thing but still we talk abt it to be different i dont kno why

    nothing is parmanent not even trust

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  7. tell me one thing if ur mummy gets sick u give her medicin so she become healthy u dont leave yur mum do u so if yur trust get sick try to revitalize it dont stop trusting. wats the big deal

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  8. remember ppl will alwas break ur trust
    but u need to trust cuz u will not see how many have not broke yur trust so trust for those who dont break yr trust

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