Whose at FAULT?

Have you ever noticed how little kids always have someone else to blame if they get caught? He hit me first. She made me do it. They did the same thing. Nobody told me not to do that.

Of course as we get older, we get much wiser. It's not that we don't blame others, we just get better at hiding it! Somehow it's not OK to be wrong or make a mistake. If we can deflect the blame to someone else, we're "off the hook". But is that really a good thing?

Do you think that we are big enough to handle the issues? we can only do two things. Either to do the mistakes and commit them, or to do the mistakes and blame someone else.

What do you do?

CAN WE TRUST?

Trust is a very small word but has a very deep meaning in it. Trust is a belief in the honesty of other person with a expectation that the person will not betray. Trust is nothing but a confidence which people tend to build on others with belief that they will respect then and not take advantage of them after letting them know about your feelings, emotions, thoughts etc.

Building a trust on others takes a lot of time but breaking up someone's trust does not even take a minute. Why do it happens that when we start trusting someone at one point of time, that person breaks it up at another point of time? When we share our feelings with others, trusting them that they won't reveal it to anyone, then why do they make it a source of their gossip with others?

I myself have experienced this a lot of time. When I was assured by the person that my inner feelings will not be known to others, then what makes them to tell others after making several promises of not revealing it to others. For me, my feelings are very much important but for others it is just a topic of gossip. So please do not ever break anyone's trust because it really hurts other's emotions and after that no one will dare to trust you again.

Respect others feelings and emotions without letting them down and making them feel guilty that why did they shared their feelings with you and trusted you.

WHERE ARE ETHICS GONE?

Why people today are adapting wrong ways to get their work done? Why people have become unethical in whatever they do? Before satisfying others people wants to satisfy themselves. We see that in our day today life. If someone wants to get their work done they have to give lots of bribe and thats what is unethical in their part.

People who demand bribe are not the culprit but people who give it are the ones who are being unethical in their part. Where are the ethics gone? Why we have to follow wrong path to get our work done? Why cant we get our work done without being unethical? Why today people are forgetting ethics and moving ahead without even thinking about it?

I feel that corruption is the one which is being placed first in competition with ethics. I rarely see people who really follow ethical ways of doing things. Today people only wants money and money and money thats all. Money has made people blind. But people are forgetting one thing that money can buy them anything in this world which they want but not peace, love and happiness.

So please do right things in life and follow the right path so that u don't feel guilty at any point of life.

Can You Do It ?

Why do people loose hope very easily? I don't know why do people say for certain things that it is impossible to do. I don't feel that anything in this world is impossible, until and unless we lack self- confidence and determination to do that. Many people dream about so many things but only few people are able to convert them into reality.

Why do people say without even trying anything that, " I HOPE I CAN DO IT, I HOPE I CAN BE LIKE THEM". I feel if a person really wants something, then that person will be determined and will try to achieve the goal to the fullest.

A person never fails if he works with full determination and confidence, that too in the right direction.

WHY SO?????

Why???????? This word itself shows that there is too much to give reasons for. This is a word which gives explainations for everything. Many a times when im free i sit back and think about the wrong things happening in this world. I don't know why people tend to follow wrong path.

When i am alone i often think of the days when my parents have sacrificed so many things for my happiness. I am sure that all the parents in this world must have sacrificed one thing or the other for the happiness of their children. They do so many things just to keep up our happiness. They stand by us in all the facets of life and protect us from all the evils.

And when it comes to our chance of doing something for them why most of us step back from it. I have often noticed that most of the children does't want to take the responsibility of their parents during their old age. Why that happens????? What stops us from doing so???? Is it because we have become more knowlegable than them or is it because we have entered into a much superior generation than theirs. Why they are left alone at that stage of life when they need their children the most?

So what do you think about it???

Can you say SORRY?

I always sit back and think that why can't people say sorry for the mistakes they do. I don't know why people hesitate to admit their mistakes and say sorry. What stops them from doing so? Is that they are egoistic, or have attitude, or feel below their dignity to say so, or they have over confidence on themself and think whatever they do is always right?

I always try to find out answers for these but I fail to get it. I do not think that admitting the mistake and saying sorry is a difficult task to do. I have been told by my parents many a times that by saying sorry to anyone you will not loose anything but rather you will gain the trust of others.

So, I feel that we should always realize our mistake as well as admit the same publically. This will not only help you improving yourself but will also help others to understand you.

Treating problem

" Don't place your mistakes on your head, their weight may crush you. Instead, place them under your feet and use them as a platform to view your horizons."

I am really very much impressed by this quote. I really don't know whether the author himself implements it or not, but seriously very well said. We really need to take our problems as the opportunity of gaining extra knowledge, instead of taking it as a hardcore tension.

Better take care of your problems, otherwise they may...